The weather has got really damn hot over the last few days, and for the first time this year It’s uncomfortably hot and i’m finding it hard to sleep at night. I have finished my job and are now free to do whatever I want, which is great as last month I didn’t have one day off.
I have now moved to another place – and with the help of a few friends – it was surprisingly easy. My new place is cheap, very cheap. For only 500元/30pounds a month it’s a decent place – I don’t plan to stay there long it’s primarily for storage. and so I have no net access at home, which is a bummer as I’ve become so reliant upon it over the last few months and I hate the smoke in the internet cafes. Here’s the rest of the post:
Written in the heat of the moment, might annoy some people.
Almost finished the semster, just one more day left. Been busy marking exams and getting all the final grades sorted out, ready to hand to my boss in exchange for my last salary.
So I arranged to meet the landlord on Saturday, for him to give me back my deposit and to sort out exactly when I will leave etc…
This proved to be troublesome, and soon bacame a shouting match – well more of one sided match, I wasn’t going to stoop to his pathetic level. As a race the Chinese are loud (just go to any busy restaurant), and when they get angry they shout even louder and the the Chinese language is a great argueing language.
Essentially he wanted ME to give him the remainder of the deposit (2100yuan); in what could only be considered an attempt to steal the money from me. Of course this shocked me, afterall I was expecting him to pay me back what I am owed since – the contract is about to end.
The problem is that I am forgetting where I am, and that I am gageing things from a Western perspective. I must remember that whether a persons actions are right or wrong is not important; I should have been more cynical in dealing with the landlord, as the more he said, the more clear it became that he is not going to see 1 fen of my deposit back.
What can I do?
Nothing, zero, nil, zilch.
However I have a plan.
I will take measures into my own hands, by siezing assets roughly equlavent to the value of 900yuan. Unfortunatly there isn’t much worth taking, most of the stuff here is a few years old or too big or heavy to move. So to recoup my losses the only thing woth taking is the washing machine, worth 1500yuan new (now worth 200yuan second hand re-sale value). I believe this tactic will give me leverage – I don’t want a washing machine anyway – and the landlord will have no choice to give me the deposit back.
This keeps on happening to me here. Maybe it’s my own fault , maybe I’m just unlucky. But whatever the reason, there have been three constants to all of my troubles:
- I am in China
- I am a foreigner
- Money
It is now clear to me that some Chinese believe it is their duty to cheat the foreigner. Many exercise double standards – one for us one for them – sadly, of course, this is still being propogated through mis-education and furthermore, is perpetuated by the government. This does work both ways, sometimes the foreigner is given unwarrented special treatment – it should be a level playing field.
I also beleive that many Chinese think from the assertion that foreigners are plain stupid and don’t understand. (i’m not just talking about language). That we are incapable of doing things for ourselves, without (Chinese) assistance – hense the shock from my students when I actually tell them that I don’t have a translator and that I can do things for myself. University students – not uneducated people unexposed to other influences – I’ve lost track of the amount of times i’ve been asked ‘ when you go out how do you buy things?’ ‘what do you do?’ People asking me if ‘I know how to get home’ after i’ve told them i’ve lived here for over a year – the list goes on. Maybe it’s a lack of a way of thinking, not joining the right dots together to get a complete picture…
Furthermore, I have come to the rather stark conclusion that China is a nation of many racists. I am not usually a fan of such sweeping statements, but I believe this is the only explanation. I used to think it was a question of curiosity, interest, and nosiness. I think I was misguided (too considerate, too naive) it’s not about interest or curiosity, it’s about mockery, sneering, to make fun of, and maybe even disdain or contempt. This does not apply to everything, but i think if money is involved then it is safe to assume such. In the western sense of the meaning, there is much discrimination or prejudice based on race, in transactions that involve money.
Another thing I have learnt is that being the nice guy here gets you nowhere. If you are polite and honest the Chinese think you are weak and so will try to screw you; unless they are a good friend or family. You will be taken advantage of.
On the other hand, if you are firm, loud and obnoxious, and insulting (by western standards) people will pay respect to you, because they think you are tough, and strong willed.
As much as this may seem difficult to believe, It is the conclusion I have come to. One may say it’s a cultural difference, I used to think this too, but I don’t buy it anymore.